made the mistake of agreeing to do too many things in 2018 bc i was deluded by the fallacy that working all the time makes me a worthwhile person and now im living in 2019 just… takin my time… ignoring calls… getting shit done on my own terms. telling ppl nope, sorry, cant do that bc im going to karaoke w my friend, or no i’m busy bc i wanna stay home and finish my book and you know what, those are both good enough excuses to opt out of something. in 2019 i am infecting everyone with my chill the fuck out attitude